Membership and Selection
Details
- Author: Fabian Pfortmüller, Nico Luchsinger, Sascha Mombartz (Community Canvas, 2017)
- Category: Frameworks
- Published: 2017
- Source: The Community Canvas
- Source URL: https://community-canvas.org/
- Access: public
Description
The practices through which a community decides who joins, on what terms, and how new members are integrated. Documented across three communities with divergent approaches.
Annotation
Membership and selection covers four connected decisions: what the community requires of candidates, how the assessment happens, what trial period follows, and how new members are integrated after a positive decision. The most common failure across the ToGather archive is a missing stage, usually integration. Communities that skip it produce members who are formally accepted but culturally peripheral. This entry draws on interviews from Kibbutz Samar, Ananda Kalyani, and Feytopia to map the four stages and the practices that make each one manageable.
Full text
**Who gets in shapes everything else.** The criteria, process, and integration pathway a community uses for new members determine its culture, its conflict patterns, and its long-term coherence as much as any governance document.
### 1. What it is
Membership and selection covers four connected decisions: who can join, how the community assesses candidates, what trial period follows a positive decision, and how new members are integrated afterward. The Community Canvas treats selection as one of 17 community design themes, situated in the Experience section alongside onboarding, rituals, and shared identity. Its core argument is that intentional communities often spend enormous energy on purpose and governance while treating the question of who joins as obvious or self-selecting. It is neither.
The Canvas framework distinguishes between *criteria* (what a community requires of candidates), *process* (how it runs the assessment), *trial period* (what happens before full membership), and *integration* (the active work of absorbing someone into the culture). Skipping any of these stages does not make the process simpler. It transfers the cost elsewhere: into conflict, into members who are formally accepted but culturally peripheral, into exit conversations that nobody designed.
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*FROM THE FIELD: Three communities in the ToGather archive approached this design decision from completely different starting points. Ananda Kalyani, a spiritual eco-community in central northern Portugal, runs a structured pre-arrival recruitment process through a team called Human Flow, with explicit lifestyle criteria that filter candidates before they arrive. Feytopia, a seasonal creative community at Château de Fey in Burgundy, France, built its selection process incrementally over seven seasons, adding a sponsor system in 2026 and formal first-timer interviews as the community grew large enough to feel the cost of unmanaged arrivals. Kibbutz Samar in the Negev desert of Israel-Palestine made Yaniv and his teenage cohort wait a full year before granting membership, using demonstrated commitment over time as the primary criterion. These three processes share almost no structural features. What they share is that each community designed around a theory of what kind of person belongs there.*
### 2. Where it came from
The Community Canvas (Pfortmüller, Luchsinger, and Mombartz, 2017) synthesized community-building practices from both the corporate world and intentional communities, producing a framework that treats selection as inseparable from purpose. The logic is direct: if you have not named what your community is for, you cannot name who belongs in it. Selection is purpose made operational.
Historically, intentional communities handled membership through two broad traditions. Religious and monastic communities used novitiate periods, sometimes years long, during which candidates practiced the community's way of life before taking formal vows. Secular communities, including most twentieth-century kibbutzim, used a combination of labor contribution and social probation, often with full member votes on acceptance after a trial period. Both traditions recognized what the Canvas makes explicit: membership decisions are ongoing negotiations between individual fit and community identity, renewed throughout a person's tenure rather than settled at entry.
The collapse of many 1960s and 1970s intentional communities was substantially a membership collapse. Communities that welcomed anyone willing to show up discovered that shared enthusiasm did not produce shared values, shared labor, or shared tolerance for collective decision-making. The Canvas framework and subsequent tools like the COCREO membership model and Diana Leafe Christian's work on community formation all responded to the same failure: selection processes designed to feel open often produced the most exclusionary outcomes, because the communities that emerged fractured along value lines nobody had articulated in advance.
### 3. How it actually runs
In practice, a community implementing a deliberate membership process works through four stages.
**Stage 1: Criteria.** The community names what it requires of candidates. These requirements can be behavioral (lifestyle practices, dietary rules, commitment to specific work), dispositional (tolerance for ambiguity, willingness to take on responsibility, openness to feedback), or relational (connection to existing members, shared understanding of the community's purpose). Criteria with no observable evidence give you nothing to evaluate. Name five things a candidate would have to demonstrate, not just claim to believe. Then examine whether your current informal process would catch a mismatch on any of those five things. Often it would not.
**Stage 2: Assessment.** The community runs some process of evaluation. The range is wide: a one-day visit with informal conversation is a process; a structured interview with multiple members is a process; a written application reviewed against documented criteria is a process. The question is whether the assessment is legible to candidates and consistent across applicants. Many communities have an assessment and do not know it, because the decisions are made informally without a named frame.
**Stage 3: Trial period.** Almost every community in the archive that has thought carefully about membership uses some form of provisional participation before full acceptance. The length varies: Ananda Kalyani's Human Flow process begins before arrival; Feytopia capped first-timer stays at one month before any longer commitment; Kibbutz Samar held Yaniv's cohort for a year before granting membership. The trial period creates a structured window for both sides to gather information. Candidates learn what daily life requires. Communities observe how candidates respond to friction, responsibility, and constraint.
**Stage 4: Integration.** The stage communities most often skip. Acceptance is not integration. A new member who has passed assessment and trial is formally inside the community but may be culturally peripheral for months or years. Integration requires active attention: formal mentorship or pairing with existing members, structured reflection on early experience, explicit introduction to practices that are implicit for long-timers and invisible for new arrivals. Feytopia used onboarding interviews to explain not just logistics but expectations and culture. Ananda Kalyani allocated every incoming member to a specific team before arrival, so the first day's role was already defined.
**Invitation to leave.** Selection processes have an exit condition. The community's theory of who belongs has to include a theory of what happens when someone no longer belongs, either because circumstances changed or because the initial assessment was wrong. This is the invited exit: not punishment, but recognition that the fit has broken down. Anandeshvarii at Ananda Kalyani described it plainly. Someone who is not adding to the collective, more weight than positive contribution, is invited to leave. Feytopia's non-return requests followed consent breaches where the person showed no remorse and no willingness to repair. Neither community treated this as a failure of selection. Both treated it as a necessary correction, built into the logic of deliberate membership.
### 4. What this practice is and what it is not
Selection practices are often misread as gatekeeping for its own sake, or as a mechanism for exclusivity. That reading misses the function. A community with no selection process still makes membership decisions. It makes them informally, inconsistently, and often without the candidate's awareness. The effect is not openness. The effect is that acceptance depends on who you know, what you look like, or how much you remind the existing members of themselves.
Selection and recruitment are also different things. Recruitment attracts candidates. Selection filters them. Many communities run both in the same conversation, which means the filtering stage does almost no work, because the conversation is optimized for appeal rather than assessment. Separate them, or at least mark a clear shift between them.
Selection pairs with purpose-setting and with the departure practices documented in the companion entry on Member Transitions and Departure. A community that cannot name what it is for will struggle to name who belongs. A community that cannot manage departures will find its selection process undermined by the cost of exits it did not anticipate. The three practices form a cycle: who joins depends on what the community is for; who leaves depends on who joined and what the community remained.
### 5. Communities
**Ananda Kalyani, central northern Portugal.** Ananda Kalyani runs one of the most formalized selection processes in the ToGather archive. The Human Flow team handles pre-arrival filtering. The criteria are specific and stated plainly: no meat, no eggs, no garlic, no onions, no drugs, no alcohol. These requirements come directly from the Ananda Marga philosophical tradition that underlies the community's work. Anandeshvarii explained the logic: "We have so many specificities and characteristics that not everyone feels aligned. And that is important for us. We have a very specific lifestyle... So we try to make a filter before."
The alternative the community is guarding against is familiar. "There is this very common sense of community of a lot of freedom, everybody does whatever they want," Anandeshvarii said, describing an image of community life that attracts many candidates. "And we actually do not encourage that. So the expectations might not be so aligned when people arrive. And that is why we need to do the process before."
Once a candidate is accepted, the allocation is immediate. "There is a structure, and everyone who comes here knows already where they will be allocated," Anandeshvarii said. The first contribution is defined before the first day. This eliminates a common entry failure: the new arrival who spends weeks figuring out where they fit, accumulating disorientation before they have enough relational standing to ask for help.
The exit mechanism follows the same clarity. "We had someone who was not adding to the collective, was more of a weight than a positive contribution," Anandeshvarii recounted. "And yeah, that person was invited to leave." Not asked to comply with broken rules. Invited to leave, because the fit had failed and the community had the language and the will to say so.
*FROM THE FIELD: Shelby McAuliffe has run admissions at Feytopia for two seasons. Her framing of the role is one of the sharpest descriptions in the archive of what selection work actually is. "I recognise that the role I play is giving access to someone's dream," she said. "Being able to come here was my childhood dream. My little Shelby, being able to have an opportunity to exist in a community, a creative and art-based and collaborative and intellectual community, not only in the French countryside. There are so many elements that were part of my dream. So being on the admin side, being someone who's supporting admittance and reviewing applications... I recognise that is a position of power, but in a way that, I am able to recognise and offer that dream to people that I was given as well. So I feel very honoured. It's not trying to be, it's that being the gatekeeper that's exciting. It's opening the gates for someone."*
**Feytopia, Burgundy, France.** Feytopia's process developed over seven seasons. In the early years, selection was mostly social: if you knew Ed or heard about the Château de Fey through that network, the informal filter probably held. As the community grew, the social network broadened and the filter needed deliberate design.
By 2026, Feytopia's process had three tracks. Returning members with a strong reputation booked directly. New arrivals with a sponsor or voucher from an existing member were verified with the sponsor, then given a booking link. New arrivals with no existing connection were capped at a one-month first stay, followed by a structured interview with Shelby, Poli, and Alex. The interview was not primarily a vetting session. "The interview process is not only for us to make sure that it's a good fit for them to come," Shelby said, "but also for us to answer their questions." The process was a mutual information exchange. Exit selection mostly happened earlier: the application effort itself filtered out candidates who were not serious, and the few who reached the interview stage and still seemed misaligned tended to recognize it themselves.
Non-return requests at Feytopia followed a specific pattern. Consent breaches happened, and the community did not treat every breach as a removal trigger. The diagnostic question was how the person responded when confronted. "People that didn't really show remorse, or felt that they had done anything wrong, and weren't really receptive to collaboratively resolving the issue," Shelby said. "In that case, we've requested they don't return." The behavior was less diagnostic than the response to the behavior.
Shelby also named the gap the community had not yet closed. "We don't really have a code of conduct of how someone should behave, what are the limits of what is acceptable or not acceptable within the community grounds." Seven seasons in, the implicit norms had held the line, with emotional cottage spaces providing room for conflict to surface. But the absence of written standards meant each enforcement decision had to be reinvented from scratch.
**Kibbutz Samar, the Negev, Israel-Palestine.** Samar's membership process when Yaniv arrived was less formalized and no less deliberate. The community was split between two factions: one that came from existing kibbutzim and wanted to preserve collective structure with improvements, and one that had fled kibbutz life and wanted maximum freedom. Yaniv's cohort of teenagers arrived during that tension and was told to wait.
"They didn't let us go right away," Yaniv recalled. "Because we were too young. They told us: if you hold out, then we will give you the 12th. But the eleventh graders disagreed. And we continued to meet, and we continued to come, and then we came here." Commitment demonstration over time was the criterion. The trial was not structured with checkpoints. It was duration, observed. And what emerged from it was something nobody had planned: Yaniv's cohort, by requiring both factions to parent a group of young newcomers, softened the tension between the two founding groups. "They had to discover some kind of mature side within themselves," Yaniv said. "They were 28 years old, we were 18 years old. So they had to watch over us, make sure we don't get to bad places too early. And that softened them in some way."
Decades later, Yaniv described what it means to stay with the people you chose: "I live here with people I have known for more than 30 years. This is not simple." And his description of the commitment Samar represents is the clearest summary of what deliberate membership means at full duration. "I say sharing is like BDSM. This is only between adults and only with consent."
### 6. Steps to begin
**Start with criteria, not process.** Before designing any assessment, name what the community actually requires. Do this in writing. Make the list short and specific. Aim for five things a candidate would have to demonstrate, not just claim to believe. Then examine whether your current informal process would catch a mismatch on any of those five. Often it would not.
**Map the existing process before changing it.** Many communities have a membership process without knowing it. Someone reads applications. Someone decides who gets a first visit. Someone decides whether a visitor returns. Write down who does each of these things, when, and what they look at. The gaps in that map are where unintended selection criteria live. Most communities find several.
**Separate assessment from recruitment.** If your only selection conversation is the same conversation where you describe the community's appeal, you are not assessing. You are selling. Run those two conversations separately, or mark a clear shift between them, so candidates understand when they are being evaluated and when they are being informed.
**Build the sponsor layer before the community gets large.** Feytopia added a sponsor system in its seventh season, under pressure from admissions volume. Adding it early, before the informal network is big enough to function as its own filter, is simpler. A sponsor system decentralizes accountability for new arrivals: the person who vouches takes on some responsibility for the candidate's behavior and integration, which distributes the load that would otherwise fall entirely on whoever is running admissions.
**Design integration as a role, not a welcome.** Someone should be accountable for each new member's first 30 to 90 days. One person, not a committee. That person checks in, surfaces confusion before it becomes resentment, and translates the implicit rules that long-timers stopped noticing years ago. A single weekly check-in is more reliable than an elaborate mentorship program nobody has time to run.
**Name the exit condition in advance.** Write down, before you need it, what would trigger an invitation to leave. Communities that have not done this have to invent the conversation under pressure, with no shared frame. Feytopia's non-return decisions required multiple people to discuss and agree. The discussion was the process. That is enough, if the community has agreed in advance that it is enough.
### 7. Living examples and entry points for community builders
The Community Canvas provides a free worksheet on membership and selection at [community-canvas.org](https://community-canvas.org). The worksheet walks through the four stages with reflection prompts for each. It is a reliable starting point for a community that has never formalized this conversation.
The Sociocracy 3.0 framework at [s3.io](https://s3.io) includes a pattern called "Agree on Values" that pairs naturally with the criteria-setting stage. The argument is that explicit values agreements make selection criteria legible and defensible, rather than depending on assessments that cannot be explained or applied consistently across different candidates.
Diana Leafe Christian's *Creating a Life Together* (2003) has the most detailed treatment in the intentional community literature of membership design, including templates for membership agreements, trial period structures, and the legal considerations across different community ownership models. Chapter 9 is the most practically useful for communities at the design stage.
The Ganas community in Staten Island, New York, and the Twin Oaks community in Virginia have both published documentation of their membership processes, with explicit trial periods, feedback structures, and membership votes. Twin Oaks' visitor program, a three-week stay with structured evaluation by existing members, has been running for decades and is described in detail on their website at [twinoaks.org](https://www.twinoaks.org).
For communities working through the tension between openness and coherence, the companion entry [Community Purpose-Setting](/library/community-purpose-setting) is the direct prerequisite. Purpose clarity makes selection criteria easier to derive and easier to defend to candidates who ask why they were turned down.
For the departure side of the membership arc, [Member Transitions and Departure](/library/community-member-transitions) covers exit practices, seasonal cycles, and the invited-leave mechanism across the archive in more depth.
### 8. Where it gets hard
**Selection with no stated criteria is still selection.** Communities that believe they have no selection process are selecting on social proximity, cultural legibility, and existing members' comfort. These criteria are harder to question than explicit ones, and they tend to reproduce the demographics and blind spots of whoever is already there. Making the implicit explicit is uncomfortable; it also makes the process challengeable, which is the point.
**The process and the community are mutually defining.** A community that makes membership decisions primarily through informal social networks will attract people who are skilled at informal social networks. A community that uses written applications will attract people who can write. The selection mechanism shapes who applies, not just who gets accepted. This is worth knowing before you design the process, because the design is also a statement about what kind of person you are trying to find.
**Sponsor systems create accountability and also new risks.** The person who vouches for a new member is now connected to that member's behavior and to any conflict they generate. In some communities this creates useful accountability. In others it creates reluctance to vouch at all, which means the sponsor layer starts filtering for candidates with existing relationships rather than candidates with genuine fit. Watch for this pattern as the community grows.
**Integration takes time that communities rarely budget explicitly.** The person assigned to integrate a new member is usually doing other things. The integration work happens in the gaps, between meetings and after dinner and during the moments when the new person is clearly confused but not sure who to ask. Integration design needs to be simple enough that it actually happens under real conditions, not ideal ones.
**Invited exits are contested.** Even in communities with clear exit criteria, the person being asked to leave rarely agrees that the criterion was met. The community needs to have decided, in advance, how many people must agree, what conversation happens before the invitation, and what the process looks like if the person refuses to leave. Feytopia's non-return decisions involved multiple people discussing the same case. That group process was the legitimacy mechanism. Communities that make exit decisions unilaterally, or through a single conversation, create grounds for challenge that take much longer to resolve than the exit itself.
**The founding cohort's selection process does not transfer automatically.** Samar's first members selected each other through ideological alignment and physical proximity in the Israeli-Palestinian kibbutz movement of the 1970s and 1980s. That process made sense when the founding group was small and coherent. It would not serve a community that had grown to include people who arrived without that ideological background. Selection processes need updating as communities change. Many communities resist this because revisiting membership criteria feels like revisiting identity. That discomfort is precisely why the revisit is worth doing deliberately rather than letting the process drift.
### 9. More resources
**Primary source**
Pfortmüller, Fabian, Nico Luchsinger, and Sascha Mombartz. *Community Canvas Guidebook.* Together Institute, 2017. Available free at [community-canvas.org](https://community-canvas.org). The Selection theme is in the Experience section; the Integration theme is adjacent.
**Archive interviews referenced**
Anandeshvarii, Ananda Kalyani, central northern Portugal (Human Flow recruitment process, pre-arrival criteria, allocation on arrival, invited departure).
Shelby McAuliffe, Feytopia, Château de Fey, Burgundy, France (sponsor system, application review, first-timer interview structure, consent as non-return criterion, admin burnout in selection roles).
Yaniv, Kibbutz Samar, Negev, Israel-Palestine (commitment trial, founding faction dynamics, long-term membership culture).
**Companion Library entries**
[Community Purpose-Setting](/library/community-purpose-setting): Naming what the community is for is the precondition for naming who belongs. Grounded in Ananda Kalyani, Kibbutz Samar, and Feytopia.
[Member Transitions and Departure](/library/community-member-transitions): Exit practices, role shifts, and seasonal cycles across the archive. The departure side of the membership arc.
**Extended reading**
Christian, Diana Leafe. *Creating a Life Together: Practical Tools to Grow Ecovillages and Intentional Communities.* New Society Publishers, 2003. Chapter 9 on membership.
Sociocracy 3.0. "Agree on Values" and "Proposal Forming" patterns. At [s3.io](https://s3.io).
Twin Oaks Community. Visitor program documentation. At [twinoaks.org](https://www.twinoaks.org).